As an astronomer, I often get asked a wide range of questions—some highly technical, like “What causes orbital decay in an extrasolar system?”, which are discussed in great detail within the scientific community. On the other hand, everyday people ask me fundamental questions like “Why is the sky blue?” or “Why do we breathe oxygen?” And here’s the thing—no question is dumb. Asking questions fuels curiosity and learning.
But if there’s one question that truly frustrates me, it’s: “Aren’t you aware of this information?” Listen, nobody knows everything! Even if it’s within your own field, something you’ve spent years researching, it’s perfectly okay to not have all the answers—as long as you’re willing to learn. This question, however, can plant seeds of self-doubt, making the person on the receiving end feel like they should know everything, leading to unnecessary overthinking and even imposter syndrome.
So, before you ask someone “How do you not know this?”, remind yourself: no one knows everything, and learning never stops.
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